◎ 哀而不伤 āi érbùshāng[be sentimental but not mawkish;pathetic sentiments not carried to the extreme;deeply felt but not sentimental] 精神上烦恼或忧虑但不至于伤害身心 -----------------国语辞典：虽然悲伤但不过分。《论语．八佾》：「关雎，乐而不淫，哀而不伤。」适中而无过与不及。《二刻拍案惊奇．卷二一》：「王爵与王惠哭做了一团，四个妇人 也陪出了哀而不伤的眼泪。」
◎ 哀家 āijiā[queen who lived in widow] 旧小说、戏曲中太后或皇后在丈夫死后的自称-----------------国语辞典：戏曲中孀居后妃的自称。英语 I, me (self-referring by a widowed empress etc, used in historical novels and operas)
◎ 哀启 āiqǐ[eulogy on (life of) the deceased usually attached to the oobituary notice;memorial article] 放在讣告后的信函,用于追述死者生平事迹-----------------国语辞典：文体名。死者家属叙述死者事略及病情，附在讣文内寄给亲朋的文字。