◎ 拔苗助长 bámiáo-zhùzhǎng[pull up the rice shoots with the intention of helping them to grow;try to help the shoots grow by pulling them upward] 即揠苗助长,嫌禾苗长得慢而用手向上提,以助其生长。比喻不顾事物发展的客观规律,强求速成,反而把事情搞坏 他还是个孩子呀,可别拔苗助长哟!-----------------国语辞典：比喻为求速成而不按事物本有渐进的秩序，结果不但无益，反而有害。参见「揠苗助长」条。