◎ 分寸 fēncùn[proper limits for speech or action;sense of propriety] 指说话或做事的适当标准或限度没分寸不讲分寸-----------------国语辞典:度量长短的标准。《汉书.卷二一.律历志上》:「度者,分寸尺丈引也,所以度长短也。」办事或言语恰当的限度。如:「自知分寸」。微小。如:「分寸之土」。英语 propriety, appropriate behavior, proper speech or action, within the norms德语 Feingefühl, das rechte Maß, Fingerspitzengefühl 法语 tact, mesure
◎ 分庭抗礼 fēntíng-kànglǐ[stand up to sb.as an equal;act independently and defiantly;make rival claims as an equal;match one's wits;treat sb. as an equal] 抗:对等相当,也作“伉”。原意为宾主分处庭院两边,相对设礼,以平等之礼相待。后喻指平起平坐,相互对立 偏据一偶,分庭抗礼-----------------国语辞典:彼此的关系对等,以平等的礼节相见。比喻平起平坐,地位相当。《儒林外史.第四○回》:「但凡做的来,萧云仙就和他分庭抗礼,以示优待。」也作「分庭伉礼」。近平分秋色,平起平坐反和衷共济﹑自甘雌伏