◎ 推己及人 tuījǐjírén[treat other people as you would yourself;do as you would be done by others;be considerate as to put oneself in the place of another] 用自己的心思来推想别人的心思;替别人所处的境地设想 -----------------国语辞典:将心比心,设身处地替别人著想。宋.朱熹〈与范直阁〉:「学者之于忠恕,未免参校彼己,推己及人则宜。」清.张惠言〈承拙斋家传〉:「以推己及人为门户,以书策吟咏为圆囿,保吾天,全吾真,处而安焉。」