◎ 推己及人 tuījǐjírén[treat other people as you would yourself;do as you would be done by others;be considerate as to put oneself in the place of another] 用自己的心思来推想别人的心思;替别人所处的境地设想 -----------------国语辞典:将心比心,设身处地替别人著想。宋.朱熹〈与范直阁〉:「学者之于忠恕,未免参校彼己,推己及人则宜。」清.张惠言〈承拙斋家传〉:「以推己及人为门户,以书策吟咏为圆囿,保吾天,全吾真,处而安焉。」
◎ 推心置腹 tuīxīn-zhìfù[treat others with utmost sincerity;confide in sb.;show the greatest confidence;repose full confidence in sb.] 推己赤心,置于他人之腹,比喻以至诚待人 -----------------国语辞典:语本《后汉书.卷一.光武帝纪上》:「萧王推赤心置人腹中,安得不投死乎!」后以推心置腹比喻真心诚意的待人。明.焦竑《玉堂丛语.卷七.规讽》:「李侍郎绍,江西安福人。与人交,必推心置腹,务尽忠告。」也作「推心致腹」。近披肝沥胆,推诚相见,肝胆相照,开诚布公,委以心腹反钩心斗角,尔虞我诈,疑鬼疑神英语 to give one's bare heart into sb else's keeping (idiom); sb has one's absolute confidence, to trust completely, to confide in sb with entire sincerity
◎ 斥退 chìtuì(1) [dismiss sb.from his post]∶免官革退(2) [shout at sb.to go away]∶屏退;挥之令退斥退左右-----------------国语辞典:革退、免职。汉.王充《论衡.定贤》:「准主而说,适时而行,无廷逆之却,则无斥退之患。」《后汉书.卷二六.伏湛传》:「微过斥退,久不复用,有识所惜,儒士痛心,臣窃伤之。」近革退喝令退出。《文明小史.第二八回》:「西卿向县里说了,诬那田主虐待佃户,收人家一倍半的租粮,县里听了一面之词,将田主著实训饬一顿,斥退不理,倒把那些佃户放了。」英语 to dismiss (from a post), to expel from school, to order away (servants etc)