◎ 逆耳 nì ěr[be unpleasant to the ear;grate on the ear] 听起来使人不悦和不能接受我们要学会听逆耳之言-----------------国语辞典:说出的话让人不爱听。《旧唐书.卷七八.于志宁传》:「但悦意取容,臧孙方之疾疹;犯颜逆耳,春秋比之药石。」近刺耳,忤耳反中听,顺耳英语 unpleasant to hear, grates on the ear (of home truths)法语 désagréable à entendre
◎ 逆来顺受 nìlái-shùnshòu[bear one's hard lot as well as one can;grin and bear it;meekly accept humiliations] 对恶劣的环境或无礼的待遇隐忍而不抗争 媳妇并不是逆来顺受的女人,只会给这位婆母碰钉子-----------------国语辞典:以顺从的态度接受恶劣环境或不合理待遇。《永乐大典戏文三种.张协状元.第一二出》:「逆来顺受,须有通时。」近唾面自干反针锋相对,以牙还牙,以眼还眼