◎ 哀启 āiqǐ[eulogy on (life of) the deceased usually attached to the oobituary notice;memorial article] 放在讣告后的信函,用于追述死者生平事迹-----------------国语辞典:文体名。死者家属叙述死者事略及病情,附在讣文内寄给亲朋的文字。
◎ 哀而不伤 āi érbùshāng[be sentimental but not mawkish;pathetic sentiments not carried to the extreme;deeply felt but not sentimental] 精神上烦恼或忧虑但不至于伤害身心 -----------------国语辞典:虽然悲伤但不过分。《论语.八佾》:「关雎,乐而不淫,哀而不伤。」适中而无过与不及。《二刻拍案惊奇.卷二一》:「王爵与王惠哭做了一团,四个妇人 也陪出了哀而不伤的眼泪。」